How do I go about breaking up with my girlfriend without hurting her?
Aug 30th, 2009 | By oldhippydude | Category: Singles & Dating
JVenice asked:
I’ve been in a relationship for about 7 months now and she’s way more into me than I am to her but she’s a really good person who deserves the best and I don’t want to hurt her but I want to be happy and am simply not with her.
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I’ve been in a relationship for about 7 months now and she’s way more into me than I am to her but she’s a really good person who deserves the best and I don’t want to hurt her but I want to be happy and am simply not with her.
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Dying… Seriously, there is no gentle way to be dumped.
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Tell her what you just said.
You aren’t happy in the relationship anymore, but you think she’s great. You think she’s a wonderful person, but just not for you. Tell her that you honestly think it would be best if you were just friends.
** Keep in mind that she’ll be hurt no matter what you say. It’s best to be honest, respectful, and understand her feelings. In the end, after she’s had some time to cool down – She’ll appreciate the way you did it, and she’ll be alright.
well, do it in person. explain WHY you want to break up with her. don’t make her feels bad abt herself, convince her that she is a great girls and you want to stay friends. tell her that there are guys out there who she ight fall in love with. do it softly, and gently.
good luck!
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There is no easy way,but the worst is writing a note or saying it over the phone! Tell her face to face!
there is no way you wont hurt herif she caresa about you that much,but you could just say you feel differnet now & you both should see new people & you should just be friends.she might be hurt a little,but itll make you happy.
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a note, text, idk!
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Maybe you should stick it out,see if you’ll eventually like her more cuz i’ve known guys in that same situation who regretted breaking up with that girl.
i guess there really is no way to break up without someone getting hurt so just be as kind as you can but don’t back down if it’s what you really want
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what an *** u should not have let the relstion ship go that far i cant help u
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just say it if u dont like her anymore u shouldnt care how she feels now should u
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awww she say it gently and say u want 2 b friends. she will b hurt but eventually she’ll get ovr it and its nice that ur sweet
You cannot break up without hurting her. Just be as honest and polite as possible. Do it IMMEDIATELY!!! Do not wait another day. The longer you wait, the more hope she has and the more hurt she will be.
If you dont want to hurt her feelings then tell her yall are meant to be friends not go out and i think you deserve more than just me tell her that and see what happens ethier way she is going to be hurt cuz she is a girl and girls are emotional like me i am girl and when i was in your position i said the exact samething just be honest with her
Tell her how great she is and how lucky any guy would be to have her and how she made your relationship great while it lasted but over time you’ve lost feelings and you feel it isnt’ fair to go about being with her and letting her think you feel the same way about her as she feels about you, it’s best you do it sooner than later cause later it will hurt more, just tell her how you don’t want to lose her completely but you don’t want your feelings to be put into a relationship you would rather keep it to just being friends.
Well if you’re sincere and you tell her your reasoning just like you explained it now, I think that’s the nicest way to do it. The break up is going to hurt her anyway, but being gentle about it makes the recovery easier.
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Better to be honest. Don’t be a chump by not calling her or avoiding her. Tell her the truth, she deserves that. Yes, it will hurt, but she will get through it. Everyone, gets hurt in relationships sometime or another. It’s how you end it that will determine on how you will be remembered. Even though she will be sad, she will appreciate your honesty.
if u can stay happy being away from her, then please dont spoil her life, U cant make her happy ever, by the way why do u want to go away, Did she do any thing wrong? Will she bear being away from u? what if she couldnt take it? Were u cheating her ? if u didnt want such a relation plz dont continue, as time passes she will find more difficulty in getting away from u
Honey she is going to get hurt either way just what ever you do don’t…..
Get your friends to do it,
Do it by text, phone, sticky note ect.,
that is a good way to get kicked the balls or slapped in your face.
Do straight to her face say “Honey I don’t think it’s working and I think we need to break up I’m sorry.”
There’s no way of not hurting her here. That’s sweet though!
Just tell her what you just said and say it gently.
Good luck!
just tell her that you two arent right for eachother and that she deserves someone that could love her a lot more than you
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There is probably no way to get out of it without hurting her .. but you can try to make the break a little easier.
No way you do it .. will stop her from getting hurt. Still – it takes 2 to make a relationship .. and both need to want to be in it, and happy.
Just tell her that right now, things are not working for you — and you feel that you & she should break up because you have things you need to get sorted out for yourself .. and it is what you need to do. Tell her is is wonderful & she deserves the best. Tell her that you have to have this time to be free . Be as up-front as you can .. but be kind.
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Just talk to her. Its better to tell the truth,and letting your true feelings show about it than hiding it. Show that you can be an honest person, and tell her how you feel, without hurting her.
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honesty is the best policy. it sounds like you are going to hurt her
if she is that much into you. and as for you every body is entitled to happiness!
Just tell her the truth. She is going to get hurt and upset it doesn’t matter how you do it. Right away she may not want to talk to you, but if your truthful she will learn to respect you for it.
Don’t sugar coat anything, because it will make her think that you still want to be with her.
Well she is going to be hurt no matter what, but the best way to do this , especially if you truely respect her, is to be honest with her and do it in person.
Jesus, be more open minded about the situation – you will break her heart no matter how you go about dumping her.
What is stopping you from feeling more for her than you are at the moment? Answer yourself that. And you might be worse off for dumping her, as in you will be less happy than when you were with her.
I’m not saying marry her but if you say she deserves the best then dont give her the worst. So dont dump her!
Your going to hurt thats the bottom line. Just let her know what you told us. And that you just want to be friends. Plain and simple.
Ok, well…there’s actually no easy way of breaking up with someone. It’s going to hurt her no matter what, but….
Sit her down in person and tell her there’s something important for you to tell her. You know it is possible to stop loving someone out of nowhere. Tell her that you’ve just lost feeling for her, and that you want to break up with her. Make her feel good by saying that she’s a very good person, but then say that you’re not into her as much as she’s into you. I hope I helped!!