How to you get over breaking up a w/ a girlfriend of 3 yrs?

Oct 13th, 2009 | By oldhippydude | Category: Singles & Dating
J asked:


Broke up 2 months ago, I just want to call and talk to her about anything cause she was my best friend. I really don’t have any other good friends =/

I don’t even want to date her anymore, I just feel sad and hurt that I didn’t make her happy and that she doesn’t call anymore. Which is, obviously, a good thing.
I admit Paul, I laughed. But that’s not really appropriate…

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  1. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    call her and tlak to her

  2. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    3 yrs is pretty much forever.

    You both still need your space, to gatehr your feelings and what not. She will come around in time

  3. You can’t. You’ll think about her for the rest of your life, and you’ll never be happy again. The best thing to do is end your life right now.

  4. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    Only time will heal the loss you’re feeling. I dated a girl for 6.5 years and it took a long time. It’s been almost 3 years now, I’m finally over her.

    Trying to be friends with her might not be a good idea. I know it’s not what you want to hear.

  5. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    i had my break up at last night so i can understand you and try to forget her may be it is not easy but we have to try this is only the way

  6. A break up over a three year relationship is always hard. If youre sad that you didnt make her happy, thats just something that youre gonna have to get over. move on man. Dont keep yourself down like this cause it doesnt help you in life. get out and enjoy the time to yourself, cause right now, thats whos important… you. hope your life gets better man. Good luck

  7. whiskey

  8. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    well you know what they say in order to get over someone old is to find you some one new!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

  9. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    Well, if it helps any, my best guy friend and I tried dating and it didn’t work. We were mad for a little bit, but I’d have to say we are better friends now than we were before.

    Just try talking to her, a little at a time, and ***** some old jokes. If she’s really a good friend and neither one of you did anything unforgivable (like kiss a best friend or something), she’ll eventually come around.

    And just so you know, the blame is NEVER on just one party. Don’t worry, true friends remain true friends no matter what.

  10. Well, if you don’t want to date her anymore, then obviously you are starting to get over her. Honestly I know exactly how you feel. I have been in the same exact situation.
    My ex and I still talk. We are best friends, but that is it. You wouldn’t believe it, but things aren’t even weird or awkward, because of everything in the past. It is just like we are friends. Hope this helps!

  11. Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

    I think the two of you need time and space to heal… after moving on, both of you could talk again like before just like it didn’t happen. And maybe, after thet you can reconcile and still save your relationship.. Update me on what would happen. OK?! I’m just an email around if you want more advice.

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