My mom recently started dating again after years of being single,but she’s a stalker! How do I tell her 2 stop?
Aug 13th, 2009 | By oldhippydude | Category: Marriage & Divorce
Ari’s Mom asked:
She has been dating this man on and off for a year, he specifically told her that he is not looking for anything serious. She told me today that she went by his house the other night, parked her car a block away & walked in his backyard, looked in his window & saw another woman.
She has been dating this man on and off for a year, he specifically told her that he is not looking for anything serious. She told me today that she went by his house the other night, parked her car a block away & walked in his backyard, looked in his window & saw another woman.
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well she could have hired a private investigator that would have charged her $200.00 for the same info she got for free.
I would ask your mother what she would say if you told her that you did that to your boyfriend/girlfriend…Maybe then she will see that what she did is absolutely wrong.
You could try talking to her about it, but she is grown she is going to do what she wants. Sorry I don’t have a better answer.
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Just tell her that’s all you can do.. What she is doing is not right. He was honest with her and let her know he is not looking for anything serious she needs to take that and go if she wants more.
LOL- I am going through something similar. There is nothing we really can do about it. She is a grown woman who has been around the blocks a couple of times- she knows how it all works. Just try and be there if it all falls apart as she has been there for you over the years. God bless,
wow your mom has major issues first she needs to understand that dating means you can go out with more than one person second what she did could have gotten her arrested or worse and last tell her to get a hobby
ok i think that you need to tell your mom that she needs help. I dont think that she should be doing something like that not only because she can get arrested for doin that but if he told her he didnt want anything serious in the first place she shouldnt have expected 4 him 2 b faithful.
That is a hard one. You mom must have some issues with men in the first place. Just sit her down and explain to her what it looks like from your point of view. Try to be as nice and respectful as possible. Get some pamphlets on stalking and leave them for her to read. If they aren’t in a relationship she needs to know that she could get arrested for peaking in his window. Get an officer to come speak to her about stalking and the dangers in it. From my understanding that people that are stalkers don’t realize that they are doing anything wrong.
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That’s scary. Poor you. The only thing you CAN do is tell her how your feel and ask her to PLEASE get a grip
This is bad behavior. People do not do this to other people. Obviously there is a trust issue here. She needs to seek counseling.
did she find it exciting? try a three some
Well I guess she’s got her answer, if she saw another woman. I think it’s really inappropriate for your mom to be discussing her dating life with you. I would just tell her that what she did is creepy, and that it sounds like she needs to move on and find someone else.