Should I tell my wife that I want to divorce?
Aug 15th, 2009 | By oldhippydude | Category: Marriage & Divorce
Test asked:
I want to divorce my wife, but I do not want to hurt her. We live together for 5 years and we are married for 18 months. But I don’t want to be with her anymore. The reason is that I feel that we don’t match. But I am afraid to ask her to split, because I do not want to hurt her. We do not have children. She is 39 and I’m 38.
I want to divorce my wife, but I do not want to hurt her. We live together for 5 years and we are married for 18 months. But I don’t want to be with her anymore. The reason is that I feel that we don’t match. But I am afraid to ask her to split, because I do not want to hurt her. We do not have children. She is 39 and I’m 38.
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After being together for 5 yrs and having kids you finally realize that you two are not compatible? You are no good. You found some young dumb ***** to take her place and you don’t want to man up to your responsibilities. You are no good.
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ok, you live with her for 5 years before getting married, what changed after the wedding that suddenly you dont match? I would suggest marriage counselling
If you want a divorce then you just need to tell her and get it over with. Staying on because you “don’t want to hurt her” is a stupid reason.
If you don’t want to hurt her. Tell her how you feel and that you need to go to marriage counseling. It will work out fine.. Don’t give up on this yet.. Give it another good shot. I hope it is not because you met some other woman either.. Seen what happened to that football player.. dating some young ***** who killed him.. grass isn’t greener on the other side..
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Hmm. I really think you should give this more time and effort. People are bottomless, and you have to believe that. There is always more to learn about someone and there are things you guys can do together that you don’t know about yet.
Take up a new hobby together. Go to couples therapy. The grass isn’t greener on the other side. The “in love” and excited feeling fades most of the time with anyone. There are no incompatible couples as long as you have the same goals, can live together, aren’t abusive, and have similar beliefs. You won’t just hurt her, you will rip her apart. You are never the same after a divorce. You made this commitment, and you were old enough to know what you were getting into. If you leave now, you are a real ******.
And Liz is totally right about the first years of marriage. Those are the hardest years. When you get past them, the good times will roll.
Now’s a hell of a time for you to decide that. Jeez.
Do what makes you happy but you owe it to her to be honest and upfront. She’s not going to like it but you either leave or you stay. There is no in between.