What is the main reason for divorce these days?
Oct 2nd, 2009 | By oldhippydude | Category: Marriage & Divorce
savvy_pirate72 asked:
I can’t find anyone whose parents are still married. My husband and I are the only parents among my children’s friends who got married young and are still married (15 years last December and we’re 36&37). His parents are divorced 3 times over and mine also,,,,,what has happened to the family? The divorces my husband and I endured as children were brutal. Does everyone really buy that this is better for the kids,,(just give up)? Now I am not talking about abusive people, that’s a given. What are your thoughts and experiences? Can you beat 15 years on a first marriage?
nicolita-wow so you feel T.V. plays a role
Do you think it feeds immorallity?
My tree is just the opposite of yours
Dad-twice married now divorced and alone
Mom-3 times married now deceased
Grandma on dads side-divorced once then remarried
Grandma and Pa on Moms side Twice divorce and now remarried…….whew
hmmm maybe there are some demographics involved
Im in the south east of U.S.
where you from?
I can’t find anyone whose parents are still married. My husband and I are the only parents among my children’s friends who got married young and are still married (15 years last December and we’re 36&37). His parents are divorced 3 times over and mine also,,,,,what has happened to the family? The divorces my husband and I endured as children were brutal. Does everyone really buy that this is better for the kids,,(just give up)? Now I am not talking about abusive people, that’s a given. What are your thoughts and experiences? Can you beat 15 years on a first marriage?
nicolita-wow so you feel T.V. plays a role
Do you think it feeds immorallity?
My tree is just the opposite of yours
Dad-twice married now divorced and alone
Mom-3 times married now deceased
Grandma on dads side-divorced once then remarried
Grandma and Pa on Moms side Twice divorce and now remarried…….whew
hmmm maybe there are some demographics involved
Im in the south east of U.S.
where you from?
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My parents have been married for 37 years. My grandparents were married for 60 years.
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i think that if both couples lose there virginity together then they are more likely to stay with each other forever. its unnatural for people to sleep with other random people. what ells is the hymen for?
if you only know that special feeling with that one person, then you wont look at the world like there is more out there.
but i don’t know.. i am only 18, i have never been married. i don’t really know what its like. but this is just what i think so far. XP
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People do not try anymore.They think they can get better. They Never want to work on it.They forget about the words “for better or for worst” They only want the better.Divorce is much more easy these days then it was 30years ago.
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my parent’s 45th anniversary is this May and my best friend has been married for 25 yrs and she’s only 42 and her husband is 44. You can learn a lot from them. They stuck it out during the hard times and almost divorced but then the husband realized he loved his wife more than anyting and they went to counseling. Their marriage is stronger than ever. I had hope my marriage would have lasted as long as both theirs and my parent’s but my X just couldn’t keep his pants zipped and his constant lies/not coming/excess drinking etc. That was not a great environment for my 4 kids. I tried to get him into counseling and tried to forgive/forget what all happened but he refused and in the end, he chose to walk out. So we divorced. I’m much happier without him and his current marriage is about to tank becuase once again he can’t keep his pants zipped.
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I think you are REALLY blessed if you can.
it can be done, with work, dedication and the TRUE meaning of LOVE
Divorce is just too easy today. People make promises and just “forget ” that they ever made them. .
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I am 29 years old. Been married for 9 year.
Parents have been married for 32 years
Grandparents from father’s side – 50 years before grandmother’s death. Grandfather passed away 8 years later, he didn’t re-marry.
Grandparents from mother’s side – never knew my grandfather, died at age 43. Grandmother never re-married.
1st cousin – have been married for 17 years. she is 38
NNeighbors- been married for 40 years. Their daughter, married for 12yrs and son for I think about 20 something his son is 20
more and more and more
To answer your question, reason for divorce is ppl giving up on eeach othertoo quickly, money problems, and watching too many movies. A lot of ppl wants to live a Fantasy when they don’t have it at home, they search for it outside and that is when the problems begin.
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Congratulations!
Divorce seems to be easier than learning to stick to the commitment of marriage and family. People are willing to say, “Oh, my feelings are hurt. I NEED out of this horrible marriage!” They don’t realize the cost they pay for this selfishness. It’s expensive to divorce, and the emotional trauma it causes has no price tag. Folks just a few generations ago never divorced and families knew they could count on one another. That’s not so true any more. Families can cause the biggest disappointments and let downs in this life. Blended, step, half, have always been around, but it used to be due to a death, not a divorce. There just never was an ex around to cause such drama in everyone’s life. I think divorce causes more damage than young families can foresee when their relationship is strained by everyday life. Stress and the lack of communication in our relationships leads to all kinds of problems with money, affairs, family values, and decisions that impact our entire futures.
Again, congratulations on your 15 years–may you have many more! You have learned the secret that our relationships cycle through good and bad seasons.
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Well my answer is for my parents. My parents are 49 & 48. They have been married for 27 years now. The kids that I grew up with, most of them, had married parents and they are still married to the date! I think that the main reason for divorce is because people thinks it’s easier not to be married and that things are better on the other side. They see working together harder than just leaving. There’s a lot of enticement from the other side that some ppl are not willing to fight! Some people aren’t made for each other while others are but refuse to make it work!
it is possible that your husband learnt smth good from parents expcerience and he made a good choice marring you..i guess peopel divorce because they marry soon and proud of themselves without noticing if they have common points and beliefs..
They say money is the most common reason. I think it is because of the loosening of morals nowadays. People jump into marriage without thinking that it is supposed to be forever. They know they can just get divorced in a few years. People used to get married and stick with it. I heard someone say once that “Sometimes you make a good decision and it works. Sometimes you make a bad decision and you make it work.” I 100% agree. BTW my mom has never been married and 2 of my aunts have gotten divorced. My grandparents however have been married for 47 years. My hubby’s parents have been married a little over 30 years. Good luck!
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for me the wife that does not know how to turn off the management switch when she gets home. She ether is on the phone or on her (my i phone) for work.
And women talk about there hubby’s lack of interest in ***.
WOW I think she grew a beg set of male things.